11 Ways to Include Family and Friends During Your Elopement

You and your significant other were introduced to the concept of eloping over a year ago. Ever since it is all you can think about, and you know it is the perfect wedding option for you.

The only problem? You are worried about offending your family and friends.

Although, you should base your decision to elope based on how you feel as a couple. I do understand the fear of hurting feelings and stepping on toes. So, whether your family or friends come along or you want to include them in a day just for the two of them somehow, here are some ideas :

Include Family and Friends During Your Elopement

ONE

Ask them to choose a poem, reading, or prayer to have read during the wedding.

TWO

Let them write letters for you to read after your ceremony.

Bride and Groom reading a note as a way to include family and friends during your elopement

THREE

Have them choose the ribbon for your ceremony.

FOUR

Bring along something meaningful from your family - like a book, photo, quilt, necklace, etc.

FIVE

Invite them along for the short hike.

SIX

FaceTime with them when you have service.

SEVEN

Have them meet you at the brewery after your hike for just the two of you.

EIGHT

Hire a videographer or create a slideshow of your photos to show at a celebration at a later date.


NINE

Turn it into a fun weekend getaway and bring them to your favorite place as part of the adventure.
(like this camping wedding Ashley & Jeremy had!)

TEN

Have a toast with everyone.

Cheering as a way to Include family and friends during your elopement

ELEVEN

Invite them to officiate your ceremony (even if it’s not “official”).

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